Saturday, May 23, 2015

Costs versus Investments in Health

Over dinner the other night, I was talking to a friend about my recent endeavors in health and fitness (personally and professionally), and while most of my friends have been really supportive, I was shocked when she scoffed. When we initially met up for dinner, she had complimented my appearance and asked what I was doing because she could see a difference; I told her of my recent involvement in becoming a Beachbody coach, my workouts, my nutrition, and whatever questions she threw my way. And while most of my friends marveled at my discipline in routine or passion for spreading the health and fitness love, she actually scoffed and said it was too much. When I asked what she meant, she noted that the overall cost in time and money to do my work outs and eat healthy was too much. Initially, this was an answer I could accept because I make a pittance at my day job but I thought about this some more, and I am agreeing to disagree because what she sees as "costs", I look at as "investments".

Anyone in business will tell you, there is a huge difference between a cost and an investment. A cost is something spent with no expectation of a return; it is a deficit in your spending. Investments are definitely an expenditure but the difference is that there is some expectation of a benefit or return. To my friend, the perceived costs of my time and money in my health was too much. To me, what is a better investment than my health and happiness? Isn't the return worth it? I have spent enough time sick; I have spent enough time unhappy; I have spent enough time unhealthy. My body, my happiness, and my overall health is worth the time and money I put into myself because I am a great investment.

In every day life, there are a million excuses I hear about why people choose to live unhealthily and unhappily. I often hear that there aren't enough hours to take care of one's self to go work out, to go to the doctor, or do one nice thing for the self. I hear that healthy food costs too much or that people can't afford the right shoes to work out in or a gym membership or a fitness DVD. At the end of the day, it is an excuse; it's a choice because the perceived initial "cost" is just that a "cost". However, no one ever thinks about the long term costs of not taking care of one's health. I was reading an article on the Health Care Cost Institute's website earlier today because I wanted to know what was the average American was paying for healthcare annually, and it is ridiculous. The average American pays around $768 per year on just out-of-pocket copays and about $277 for prescriptions annually (with insurance). Take in mind this does not account for specifics in population such as young adults (which actually surprised me), women, children, and the elderly who paid higher than the national average; this also doesn't take into account any kind of emergency treatment. Did you know that most Americans are living with and dying from chronic diseases (diabetes, obesity, cardiovascular disease, certain cancers, etc.) every day? Can you imagine how much treatment costs for these chronic diseases? Do you realize that most of these diseases are preventable and sometimes treatable with living a healthy lifestyle -- a healthy diet and exercise? Isn't living worth the "investment"; is it not the greatest return?

I know that people have busy lives and that not everyone has a expendable income but people need to stop looking at health as a "cost". Looking at health as costs is a choice and a dangerous one in the long run. It's time to stop making excuses. It's time to look at your schedule and budget those 15-30 minutes a day for exercise even if it's just a walk. It's time to put away a few bucks here and there to save for those shoes, that work out DVD, or that gym membership. Your health is not a "cost"; your health is an "investment". You and your life are worth the "investment."

Sunday, May 17, 2015

Back to Basics: Getting Back On Track and How I am Going To Do It

I have had the most fun a girl could possibly have celebrating my birthday literally everyday of the last week but I fell off the proverbial wagon when it came to eating right and working out. Seriously, birthday cake everyday and literally whatever I wanted to eat; and while I did work out a little bit, it was at no where close to the level I am used to performing nor was it enough to balance off the calories I was taking in. The damage has been done and my body definitely feels it. All the work I put in the last month while not totally damaged definitely took a hit, and I am little “softer” than I was, and this was all in one week. We all have those days, weeks, or even months where eating right and working out takes a back seat to fun or just life in general whether it is a birthday or the holiday season, and this was definitely mine. That ends today. Time to put my girl panties on and get back on track (metaphorically and literally).

Today is day one of my own personal “Back to Basics” challenge, 2 weeks of getting organized and constructing a plan for my diet and exercise. If there has been anything I learned with my past weight loss successes and failures (or really any type of goal I have set) is that organization and having a plan is half the equation to success. Anyone who has ever seen my home or looked at my desk at work knows that organization is not my strong suit (two words: hot mess); but everyone also knows that I am perfectly capable of getting it together when I really need to. If I sit down with my goals in mind, I can come up with a realistic action plan for myself. The key word there is realistic; I know what I am capable of and able to maintain over time.

The other half of ensuring success I have learned is discipline in execution --- or in other words, consistency. For the most part, I have got this concept on lock because when I make a plan I usually stick to it. I will get up at 4 am if it means getting that work out in, and when I am good, meal prep Sunday is practically sacred in my home. Where I falter in my discipline is when there is a hiccup in the road or temptation is thrown in my face usually in the form of cake (I REALLY love cake). Diet is usually harder for me than exercise, and I notice myself making justifying that slice of cake or pillaging my staff’s desk for candy (yes, this really does happen) more often than I should. That’s why organization and meal prep is important. At the same time, I know that perfection is not attainable and I am going to be tempted every now and then; so the key to discipline is doing the best I can, picking myself up and forgiving myself a hiccup, and to continue to try to do my best.

ORGANIZATION + DISCIPLINE = SUCCESS

So for me, my 2 week “Back To Basics” plan looks like this: • Shakeology for one meal daily • Five small meals (Shakeology for Breakfast, Snack, Lunch, Snack, Dinner) • 3 days running, 2 days on a step mill and lifting, 2 days of Barre, 3 days of Brazilian Butt Lift (which after my fist workout today, I have learned is Barre class on crack), and an optional class of spin

Wish me luck...

DISCLOSURE : Please note, this is something I am doing for myself; this is a plan that I know I am capable of doing and maintaining. I have zero expectations of anyone following my exercise or diet model nor should anyone; exercise plans should be based on individual goals and abilities.

Ria xx

Friday, May 15, 2015

The Barometer : Your Happiness Within The Five Stages of Changes

In every psychology 101 course, everyone is taught the stages of change; everyone has that brief “a-ha” moment because they realize its relevance for about two seconds but then soon forget it. I’m not going to need to remember this anyway, right? WRONG.

Unless you are working in a field that constantly deals with people’s woes and needs (and in my case that is mental health), the stages of change aren’t as obvious to everyone else. From constantly observing others, I can honestly say that the stages of change are probably the biggest barometer for happiness there is. Once I recognized this, I realized an even bigger realization: change is the catalyst for happiness thus change is a choice; HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.

Mind blowing, right? So call me professor today because these are the five stages of change and how they look within the scope of our choices, goals, and happiness.

1. Precontemplation- In this stage, to you (and only you), there is no problem but to everyone else, it’s super obvious there is a problem. You are always whining about this and that; but it’s really your life, so you say to hell with everyone else’s opinions because you are fine, fine, fine. In this stage, you just aren’t aware yet that you aren’t “fine” and because you are so oblivious, the complaining persists, you continue to justify your life choices, and your world keeps running as business as usual. NOTHING changes. And the worst part is that everyone else has to still listen to you bitch and moan … and you don’t have a problem? Sureeee… denial is a river in Egypt.

2. Contemplation- This stage sounds a little like this “Ugh, I really need to lose weight; I’ll start right after this Big Mac.” In contemplation, you recognize that you have a problem; you have some insight that you need to change because you’re not happy being overweight, sick, broke, etc. Unfortunately, you’re not quite ready to take the steps necessary to really make things happen yet. In reality, most people usually get stuck in this stage. People are creatures of habit and most don’t like change because it can be scary; you might fail; or whatever excuse you came up with that ultimately means “I’m not ready yet.” Excuses, however, don’t make change and things ultimately remain the same or even get worse. I am pretty sure that this is how debt, obesity, and chronic diseases happen.

3. Preparation- Preparation is just that. You have the insight; you are done with excuses; you have done your research; you are excited; and you are motivated to GET IT DONE. You are the making the conscious choice that it is now or never, and you are ready to get on the road to meet Mo.

4. Action- Everyone who is reading this is probably wondering who the heck Mo is and I promise to explain. Right now, I am reading the book The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy and Mo is a reference to Newton’s First Law of Motion. And for those of you who didn’t pay attention in Physics class in high school, that law states “that a body in motion will stay in motion” --- or momentum, Mo for short. Mo is the perfect analogy for action. You have prepared and now you are putting forth conscious effort to make the necessary changes to reach your goals. If you are trying to lose weight, you have started counting calories , eating cleaner and working out. If you are trying to get out of debt, you have started tracking your spending, cut down on your expenditures, and are starting to pay off those bills. Whatever your goal is, you are putting in work. You have met Mo.

5. Maintenance- This stage always reminds me of the Superbowl when they say “you have won the Superbowl, what are you going to do next?” And the obvious reply is, “I’m going to Disney World!” To me, “winning the Superbowl” is reaching your goal. You are happier, healthier, and are proud of your accomplishment so you “go to Disney World;” you celebrate reaching that goal weight, eliminating debt, landing your dream job, whatever it is. You worked hard and you definitely deserve. But what happens after “Disney World”? The answer to that my friends is maintenance. You do everything in your power to make sure that your efforts don’t go to waste and that you can stay this happy because you never want to go back to the way things were.

All of us have goals and dreams; it is human nature to want and want. So I have to ask, which one of the five stages are you in when it comes to what you want? I’m not going to act like I have it all figured out; there are things in my life that are not perfect but I am definitely working on getting to where I want to be, and I am genuinely happy and excited to do the work. Can you say the same?

Ria xx

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

Who..What..When..Where..Why: The (Not So) Skinny on Why I Am Doing This

I've never really taken a risk before. For the most part, I have lived my life a little on the safe side. I went to school; I got my degrees; I got a good paying job. And for the most part, playing it safe has worked for me. Seriously, good job, supportive family, awesomely crazy friends; I am beyond blessed and I acknowledge that this is because I stayed on the little straight and narrow. So why as I approached my 29th birthday a few days ago did I feel this pang of anxiety and mild dissatisfaction that my life didn't feel like my own?

This is not where I start whining and complaining because generally, I am happy about my life. But the truth is I have lived within the expectations of my family that I forgot about myself. Everything I have done up until now has been about fulfilling this image of who I was expected to grow up to be from school to career. As a result, I became dispassionate about the direction of my life and I felt like I had zero control over almost everything ... except over my health and my drive to be fit. The only time I felt powerful and strong was working out and eating right and encouraging my friends to run or workout with me, just being healthy; it's the only time I feel like the "real me". And that brings us to this point. I am 29 years old and a baby fitness coach for Beachbody because I want to feel like the "real me" all the time & I want others to feel the same way. This is honestly the first real risk I have ever taken & yes, I am a little scared of failure; but I am also totally excited and 100% happy. This one-- this risk-- is for me.

I'm going to be real with everyone; being healthy and fit is not something that comes naturally to me. I'm Filipino; we eat freaking carbs daily and my parents did not exactly preach that exercise was my friend. Suffice to say, I was a chubby kid; literally my nicknames were Porkchop and Miss Piggy in elementary school. This fundamentally warped my body image through my formative years that as teen and even my early 20s, I was so hyperfocused on being skinny that I went on crash diet after crash diet and took so many diet "miracle" pills. Sure, sometimes I would lose weight but I would always gain it back and the sick cycle of shattered self-esteem would start all over again. I don't think that it was until the final break up with my college boyfriend (don't we all have one of those where you break up alot) did I start to develop a healthy relationship with exercise; in mental health speak (I also work in a mental clinic), I used exercise as a coping skill. Soon after, I saw results but knew that without the right eating habits that my results were not sustainable so that changed too and so did I. Yeah, I got a little hotter but I got healthier. The gym and food were no longer the enemy, and I definitely sucked when I started working out & eating well. There were & are slip ups (ugh this week especially) but I keep trying and that is the biggest part of the battle.

I hope y'all stick with me on this journey and I even help a few along the way.

Ria xx